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What Happened: I sat down at the very end of the near-empty bar, ordered a beer, and within moments, overheard a man talking about White Russians. He then turned to me. Within seconds, Lebowski and I were outside, smoking cigarettes and discussing why we had both stayed in the city for Christmas.

We talked about our dysfunctional families. We even talked, for a second, about the Smiths.

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I spoke too soon. I walked into Joshua Tree, settled down at the only open seat I could find, and ordered my beer. Things seemed as chill here as they had at the Black Rabbit — it good singles bars nyc a weeknight, and people seemed clustered in small groups, watching the game on the big overhead TVs — but try as I might, I could not summon the same degree of comfort that I had at the other bar.

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Must they be wondering what's wrong with me? The bartender certainly seemed to. Did people think I was a loser for being here alone?

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